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aubriemindock · Fri, Nov 06, 2009 5:51 pm

I am currently dating a guy and I pay for every single date. It has been that way for the entire year we have been together and we go out almost nightly. He also did not have a job until recently and the only reason he has a job is because I filled out applications for him and sent them in. I also made the interviews for him and woke him up and told him to get ready and drove him to his interviews. Now he has a great job and making great money. As for me I am in college and about to graduate. I already have a job as a personal trainer set up after graduation and I am currently a firefighter. He also proposed to me recently and I did say yes. So, some questiosn I am wondering are below. You can say whatever you want though and not answer the questions. I am just curious about what people think.

Guys: Do you think it is okay for the woman to pay for dates? Do you like it when women pay for dates? What have you been taught when taking a girl out? What do you think about having the girl pay for you all of the time?

Girls: Do you ever pay for dates? Have you ever paid for dates? What do you think about paying for the guy all of the time? How do you feel if the guy makes you pay for dates?

Please say whatever you want. I am just curious to this whole dating game. Every guy I have dated I have had to pay for. I am just wondering what is normal and what people think about dating and who pays.

rayoflight · Thu, Nov 12, 2009 3:06 am

Since no one else answered yet, I will. I paid mostly for every date with almost every guy I went out with and sometimes it feels weird not to pay now because of it, but it really feels great when the guy pays for the meals. If he is a true man he will even suggest paying it first. There are losers in this world who lack tact and use women and I have known that they exists. In the end it only matters if you feel it does and if it's all the time then it's time to look at all the other things he does. I wrote a list once of all the good verses all the blah! I think doing this helps really see things in perspective and then a list of what makes you happy to go with it can help making the decision on how to react and feel about him. These days many women and men do the sharing of expenses, but in the end, the question that matters the most is "Are you happy?" Have a good day.

funshoppe · Thu, Nov 12, 2009 3:43 am

I'm a guy, and I think it's good to be a gentleman and pay for the date, instead of making the woman pay.

nazifmahbub · Thu, Nov 12, 2009 2:46 pm

hy! I think not only guys should pay......the girls should also share.......in this way a good understanding will grow between u! My girlfriend always wants to pay lol!!

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#1 Fri, Nov 06, 2009 5:51 pm

Dating: Who Pays?

#2 Thu, Nov 12, 2009 3:06 am

Re: Dating: Who Pays?

#3 Thu, Nov 12, 2009 3:43 am

Re: Dating: Who Pays?

#4 Thu, Nov 12, 2009 2:46 pm

Re: Dating: Who Pays?

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